Love Defined

Practical Questions To Ask Yourself To Make Sure You’re Loving

  1. Is this something the other person needs to hear?
  2. Is this something they need to hear from me?
  3. If I could take my own anger and hurt out of the picture, what would be the best way for them to hear what the problem is?
  4. Given my/their limitations, are there things I should not say because it

     would overwhelm them, or needlessly hurt them?

  5. Given my/their limitations, what’s the best method to communicate with them (Phone? Email? Face to Face?)

  6.  How can I meet them where they’re currently at and show them love in a way they can understand? (Even if it’s not how I am accustomed to showing love?) For more see info on the 5 Love Languages.

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